How subjective I am?

Last night I had a dinner with Son and Hara, we talked a lot and shared a lot of funny jokes. One thing is still annoying me until now.

One good point they point out is that I am really a subjective person. They are not the first one to say so. I heard many times from different people, but I still not believe that I am that subjective. So here is the story to visualize the level of subjective from their opinion.

Hara is working as a beautician. One day she had a facial treatment for a new client. They didn't talk much and just listened to the radio program. The program is about some teenagers who like to share their love experiences or ask for some advices. When they were listening and the client suddenly said, "Why those people are so silly, why don't they just ask for help from their parent or close friends rather than share it with some stranger? It is unreasonable!". Hara was so surprise and disagreed why she would say like this. People may have problem on releasing their emotion so this is just a way to let them feel better. Why she is so subjective on what other people does. So after this Hara just pretended to agree with her but already didn't like to talk with her anymore...

That's all about the story. It makes me shock because I don't know girls care so much on these tiny things and the funny thing is I think those programs and people are silly too! I probably will say the same when I was in the same situation. I don't really know that make girls so antipathetic.

No doubt that I am a subjective person, and sorry to say that I still admire on my attitude right now. I think the problem here is girls don't like to hear someone to criticise someone, they just want to have a peace world and keep expand this atmosphere. How to release more optimistic energy instead of pessimistic is the right direction to decorate myself for girls' market.