Happy to have a ex-colleague-brother

Son is my ex-colleague from FF. He is a very nice guy with high EQ. He could be very easy to get close with some first met people. I think this is also the main reason he still can keep a long relationship with those subjective and stubborn people like me...

I met him since around 4 years ago in FF. At that moment he was a co-op student, as an arrogant colleague, I tried to teach him as much as possible from my limited 2 years working experiences. May be our age is quite close and the attitude is pretty much the same, we have fun to work and stay together to pass through the routine and boring life in FF. He is a good audience, everytime when I shared my experience with him, most of the time he just listened and questioned, rarely point out some subjective opinions to reject me. Therefore my pride was growing up day by day, thinking that my tenets are all correct.

Always tell the truth to your friends is not always the best way to help them, it may stimulate negative feedback if they are not munificent enough to accept your opinion. Knows how to step back and agree with them first is important to have their trust, then try to explain to them from another best moment. This is what I got stunned about these days, I always think that I am the one to teach him how to develop our life but there are a lot I should also learn from him. How to build and keep a relationship he is a really an expert. He can simply talk with any kind of people like a family greeting, but I was just like debating or arguing all the time.

"海納百川, 有容乃大; 壁立千仞, 無欲則剛." I think this is what I lack of and this is what I should learn about. Things have no absolute right or wrong, or I can say I have no the absolute ability to justify the right and wrong at this moment. What I should do right now is to forget all the bad memories from the past and accept any different kind of new ideas as the Ocean which can contain all the water from rivers, so that we can have a wider vision to understand the right. I should also put down all the greed and aiming to my goal to make my spirit as hard as the cliff which can suffer any kind of waves.

He is not that one to teach me how to walk in my life, but he is the one to open the door names "humbleness".